Insult Is Curse

We Hate It When They Insult Us Before Our Friends.

Every human from birth has his basic rights and respect is the most important right of a human being. Nature gives him permission to get furious when somebody insults him. Yes! Insult is a damage and harm to your mental tissue and hurts you in both perspectives, physical and mentally. Insult hurts you more than any heartbreak or disaster. The only thing a person can have if he is poor, is self-respect. Self-respect is the biggest rich of a person and no other have rights to damage or hurt it. But when people disrespect yours self they actually hurt your confidence, love, care and affection. When somebody insults you, they don’t see the inner us which is scattering apart, they just see the outer us who is pretending that nothing has happened and they don’t even care. A person can face and tolerate those insulting words who are not close to them because they don’t care about them and don’t even want to see them in their lives again. But a very sad reality is, when a very dear and special person insults you, hurts more than any physical damage. A person who is very close to you and has a strong understanding bond with you in your views breaks your trust and don’t support you make you feel empty inside.
A person specially a family man loves his parents more than anyone in the world. Parent is a second name of trust and support and if you have your parent’s support with you its mean you have all the ways open for you. Parents do love their children and also do care of them more than their selves. But they sometimes do mistakes unknowingly and damage their children mental status with their small mistakes. Children trust their parents the most in the world and they can’t understand the benefits about their scolding but they get effect from its negative side. They tear apart inside because their biggest trust broke down in seconds. They imagine thousand things about their relation between their parents whether they love them or not. Do they need us or not? They don’t love us like other parents love their kids. All these thoughts come in one’s mind after their insult. When their parents insult them and scold them, the trust factor gets slightly damage and expands every suffering.
After parents a man can trust his very close friends. Friend is a person with whom a person has a mutual affection and understanding. A person always shows his proudness and ease before his friends. When parents insult us before our friends, that feels insulting and offend. When somebody insult you before your age fellows who are related to your life and you know that they will make fun of yours and tease you on every occasion. When you insult someone you don’t insult a single guy you insult his soul and self-respect. Parents scold their children before his friends which is insulting for him. Yeah! They have rights to say anything bad to us but when they torture us or scold us before others, which is more insulting than death. Parents do mistake in their unconsciousness and regret after this. Children lose their strong trust which they had only on their parents and start hating their parents. They think bad about them and try to attempt suicide because they think the lost their last hope. They think if their parents don’t support them or give respect what would they expect from others. They lose hope and get into depression.
If you continuously insult your kids in the hope that they will rectify themselves being ashamed of themselves, you are going to a wrong solution. It will only result in the kids maintaining a distance from their parents. They will prefer to remain aloof from their parents as far as possible, which is not at all a sign of a healthy relationship.
So, dear parents don’t abuse or hit your children before others. Insult is the biggest curse or disappointment you can have. A person born with only one thing which is self-respect and if their most favorite persons insult them or scold them before others they lose hope of everything and get into disappointment and don’t give you respect back. So, if you want others to respect you first respect them.