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Being Loved, Being Betrayed

They say love is blind. I disagree. Infatuation is blind, where you are captivated or obsessed by someone or something. Love is all observing, thinking, seeing, liking, accepting and respecting. Here I am destroying the concept of “Love at first sight” too. To love someone takes way too long. It’s not simple that you got mashed on someone within no time and start building a relationship. Searching for any shortcuts in this regard and hurrying will cause you to make mistakes. Also proceeding too quickly means that you don’t have the whip hand on your lubricious thoughts and lustful nature, sorry to say. Once you be in the limelight of your beloved ones, it feels like a million. Meanwhile fear awaits you to fade away your joys and build a sempiternal sense of insecurity in your head. The intensity of fear and anxiety you experience define your priorities and things what you are afraid to lose. You have to suffer as long as you get the better of all this stuff on your own or with ...

Smog Hits Punjab

Smog hits Punjab these days, posing serious threats to the health. Basically it is caused due to plenty much of toxic pollutant mixing up with the moisture present in the upper atmosphere. A dense layer of smog has covered all the troposphere which reduce visibility to the ranks. Smog only get clear when it rains or can be reduced with the help of giant showers. Planting trees can also be very helpful in preventing smog formation in the atmosphere. Smog is not a new phenomenon these days. It was also witnessed in Lahore on November 2, 2016. By that time people were highly suspicious about the sudden change in weather. Environmental protection agency EPA Punjab badly failed to monitor and keeping a close watch on the recent situation of the environment. EPA officials are looking forward to seek help from China to get rid of smog but this will be the short term solution of the problem. They claimed that number of preventive measures, policies and actions had been adopted on...

Friends Are Chosen Family

“Can you imagine how best friends can fall in love with each other? Silently sharing their emotions and lifelines. They love it when you catch them looking at you in gatherings. You are their better half in this one universe having 9 planets, 809 islands, 7 seas having a privilege of meeting them because   every day they tell you that you are amazing the way you are.” The human condition is full of terror. We are always on the verge of disgrace, confusion, danger, disappointments and what not? In such situation we badly need friends because they give us access to an insight with which we can begin to judge our sad and broken side more compassionately. There is no formal way to define a friend. Criteria for the friendship varies from person to person. In my opinion, the broadness of the term “friendship” is far beyond befriending only humans. One can find a friend in lifeless things, feelings and fellow creatures too. Here is the little try to explain what reall...

Employed Wrinkles

In our culture no doubt there are countless respectable and moral things happening in our surrounding but on the supplementary hand there are still problems exist in which we do not look upon. And one of issue is old men or women working and lifting weight and doing heavy work more than their own mass to get a simple diet for only two times, they do not care about savings as they cannot save anything all they care about is to have food for them and their children twice a day. Conferring to one research men overhead 60 years age influence their growth hormone which effects their healthiness very much and have a habit of to lose of their physical as well as mental well-being which seems very hazardous for their health and no solemn step is taken out for their health issue, in some thoughtful cases this even case life threatening issue. Some thoughtful package should be announced which majorly emphasis on their retirement and their assistance or salary after their retirement that wh...

Insult Is Curse

We Hate It When They Insult Us Before Our Friends. Every human from birth has his basic rights and respect is the most important right of a human being. Nature gives him permission to get furious when somebody insults him. Yes! Insult is a damage and harm to your mental tissue and hurts you in both perspectives, physical and mentally. Insult hurts you more than any heartbreak or disaster. The only thing a person can have if he is poor, is self-respect. Self-respect is the biggest rich of a person and no other have rights to damage or hurt it. But when people disrespect yours self they actually hurt your confidence, love, care and affection. When somebody insults you, they don’t see the inner us which is scattering apart, they just see the outer us who is pretending that nothing has happened and they don’t even care. A person can face and tolerate those insulting words who are not close to them because they don’t care about them and don’t even want to see them in their lives again....

Plans for the conservation of nature in Pakistan

The human relation between them and their environmental Abiotic builds a strong and balanced ecosystem. Biogeochemical cycle recycles the natural resources therefore, they don’t end, by this ecosystem gets in balance. Human is changing the nature for his desires. He is doing deforestation just to make roads, colonies and luxurious societies. This is badly affecting the ecosystem. Tender stability to ecosystem is getting disturbed from these human impacts. Our environment is getting polluted day by day. Very dangerous impact we are facing today and will face tomorrow if this all go on like this. Many steps have raised to diminish pollution. In 1992 “ National Conservation Strategy ” had made in Pakistan and started work. This strategy had main point to conserve natural resources, made a better thinking and manage their uses in public. This strategy contained precautions to build better energy sources and save them. Federal minister of environment started a policy “National Drinkin...

Is There Any Need For Female Education?

Education is a systematic process to train a person, living rules and manners. In this modern age, education plays an important role cultivating the mind of both men and women. Unfortunately, in Asia literacy rate is alarmingly low, and it is decreasing every coming year. The low rate of female education is the main reason of this overall deficiency in literacy rate. Approximately, 40% girls can’t join the college or universities for higher education and those who join, can’t finish their studies because they get married. Sadly, above 40% don’t even join the school. The feudal lords have a prejudice against educating their girls. There are numberless villages in Pakistan where the arrangements for the primary education of girls simply don’t even exist. Isn’t that sad thing to know! If things will go on same then one day we will be last in the list of underdeveloped countries maybe withdraw from this also. There are many benefits of educating women in all grounds of progress. Women pl...

Self-control is the key of success

Self-control is the ability to control one’s emotions over things that are way too much to bear. It is the capacity of a person to permeate of goodness instead of otherwise. It is the projection of pure discipline and maturity. self-control is a fruit of the spirit it develops as we spent time fellowshipping with God and practicing obedience to him. Sometimes we would be rather that God control us and make us do the right things but he wants us to rule over our spirit. Like a muscle, the more you exercise the self-control on a consistent basis, the stronger you get. As your self-control increases the more you gain the ability to direct your life in a manner that is congruent with the true you. The more congruent your actions are with your thoughts and feelings, the better you feel about yourself and the decisions u make every time you feel good about a decision you make, it raises your self-esteem and your self-confidence you also reinforce in your mind what u are capable of and it ma...

MEME’S LOUD SCREAMS!

Richard Dawkins. Heard the name? No? How dare you? He is the one to provide us with the name of pleasure called -drum rolls- MEMES . Yes, he is the one to name this phenomenon. To answer the question who started this creative chain of communication is close to impossible. This road between the entertainer and entertained is foggy to see through. It is a work of an individual. Meme is something which is used, edited, altered by many people to their according. Consequently it has gain such important position in social media. Sites like Facebook, twitter, Instagram are full of these entertaining content. Comically, being tagged in a meme by a friend is taken as a compliment. And why wouldn’t it be? It reflects the ‘ gherai’ of the friendship. Bored in office? Scroll through meme. Saw a funny one? Show it to friend. Relatable enough? Tag someone. It is like an emoji. Used more frequently to express emotion than an emoji itself. Meme has now become one of those things that even if we...

THE MOST HATED GADGET BY MOMS

Almost most of us can guess from the title what could possibly be the most hated gadget by mothers especially in the subcontinent. YES! You’ve got it right. It is a great invention known in otherwise world as SMARTPHONE. To the entire world, it is a useful device which allows you to connect to the world but to Pakistani mothers, it is a wicked toy. It is an evil spirit which keeps you awake, lets you not study, cause of your headache and what not. To this extent, they may be very right in their perceptions. Smartphones, on one hand have made our lives easier and interconnected. Their creation has revolutionized the world. The once very vast globe has turned to a global village where people are connected to each other as much as possible. It has diminished distances but on the other hand, it has put us into chains. It can be visualized as a modern way of imprisonment. And this imprisonment is not merely physical but also psychological. People can usually be noted as chained to elect...

جدید معاشرہ اور ہم

از ماہ وش طالب اس میں کسی شبے کی گنجائش نہیں کہ آج کامعاشرہ بالخصوص پاکستانی معاشرہ وقت کے بدترین دور سے گزر رہا ہے پوری دنیا کے ممالک اسوقت کئی طرح کے مسائل سے دوچار ہیں ملکی سالمیت اور حکمرانی کو قائم رکھنے کے لئے یہ نام نہاد با شعور قومیں ایک دوسرے کی پیٹھ پر وار کرنے سے گریزنہیں کرتیں۔مگر بحثیت پاکستانی مسلم قوم ہمیں اپنا گریبان جھاڑنے کی ضرورت ہے کہ اسے گندہ کرنے میں پہل کرنے والےہم مکین ہی ہیں ، پھر ہی دوسروں کوموقع ملا اس گھر میں کوڑاکرکٹ اکٹھا کرکے عالمی نقشے پر تماشہ لگانے کا۔ پاکستان میں اسوقت، دہشت گردی، کرپشن اورفحاشی جیسے جرائم نے اپنی جڑیں مضبوطی سے پھیلا رکھی ہیں۔ یعنی انفرادیت سے لےکر اجتماع تک معاشرہ گناہ کے جوہڑ میں بہہ رہا ہے، اور جو اپنے آپ کو اس جوہڑسے علیحدہ کرنے کی سعی کرتا ہے،اس پرمختلف مسالک کے مطابق طرح طرح کے فتاوٰی عائد کرکے اسے مافوق الفطرت قرار دے دیا جاتاہے۔ ایسی صورتحال میں وہ شدت پسندی کاشکار ہو جاتا ہے اور ایک جنونی کے طور پر سامنے آتا ہے، اور پھر ایسے جنونیوں کو گورے پکڑ پکڑ کر اپنے مقاصد کیلئے استعمال کرکے دنیا بھر میں پاکستان کوایک دہشت گرد، پس...

Women Empowerment

Women are the most beautiful creature made by God. Apparently they look sensitive and weak but the truth is that they have power to endure hardships, strength to fight against difficulties and a big heart, which is as deep as the sea, where they hide cruelness of the world and mishaps of the fate but never complain about anything. This truth has been neglected by the world for so long time. Women are considered as less important part of the society. Their rights have been violated in all the eras. In early times people used to kill their daughters as they born, persecute and humiliate their wives and no proper status was given to women. The situation is still not in hands. Today also, women are suffering a lot. They have been made victim of sexual harassment, domestic violence, marriage and financial transaction, persecution, humiliation, gender inequality as well as gender equality is curse for them. These problems act as hurdles in every woman's life, stop her to move forwa...

IS BEAUTY A CURSE?

Consider a blue-eyed and blonde haired or in other words, a gorgeous specimen of human being passing through a trending café. How many second glances will they receive throughout their stay? Well, this is not rocket science that an individual blessed with genes of beauty tends to live their life in a spotlight, receiving tons and tons of attention. The million dollar question is “Do they really want this?” Why do people pay heaps of attention to their looks? Why do women spend hours upon perfecting their makeup? Or why do men style their hair meticulously? Everybody wishes for beauty. We want to look good in front of others and end up putting a great deal of effort in it. But as they say, beauty comes at a price . These people born with charm and allure suffer from its numerous consequences. Some of them are as follows: STEREOTYPES: The worst pitfall of good looks is ruthless stereotyping. Phrases like “Dumb blonds” are quite common in this era. People always assume that a p...

Consistency of Randomness

What I’m about to elaborate, I myself don’t know if it means something. To some of you it might and to some it wouldn’t at all. It’s for you to decide so try to keep up. The only one thing I’m completely sure about in life is randomness, the undeniable unpredictability of events that sometimes we don’t seem to be in control of at all, but what if that were the case? Would it be any better? I don’t think so, because what the human heart desires is even so random that all would become a haphazard if we were really in control. Thoughts as such lead to anxiety and existential crisis , like we all could just be characters in a game being played by some higher power to see who survives and gains most points in a lifetime. Sometimes, we try to find patterns and create logic of this irrational combination of events we call life , but we fail because the structure is too complex, just like a non-terminating and non-recurring decimal number. So exactly what is the point we can fix as a refe...

Good Governance and Public Servants

Good governance is something that has remains victim of poverty, unemployment, terrorism, contemptuous and derogatory activities since millenniums. Though we pass through the conrotatory and literal definition of good governance it may be defined as: "Good governance is a process of making decisions and implementing decisions made, properly and effectively." it can be evaluated that god governance revolve around a process of decision making. It is all about making right decision at the right time and practically applying them and it is the duty of public servants , playing indispensable role in managing things, to apply all the decisions and prevent them to remain on just a piece of paper. The good governance is as important to the life of country as the blood for human. As it is said. “As you sow so shall you reap” if you govern your public and country veracity today, you will have fruitful results tomorrow. Poverty is one of the major issues throughout the world an...

AIK LRKI KI GAIR MARD SE MOHABBAT KI TALAB

MAIN KHUD AIK LRKI HUN.. AURAT ZAAT…GANDI NAZRON KA NISHANA BN NE WALI AURAAT ZAAT… PAKISTANI MUSALMAAN GHARANE MAIN PEDA HONE WALI AIK AAM SI LRKI… LOG AJ KAL BOHT MAZE SE CHARACTER KARAB HONE KA ILZAAM LRKIYON PR DAAL DETEN HAIN… CHARACTER PR UNGLI UTHA DETEN HAIN… OR YE BAAT HAKEEKAT HAI MAINE KHUD DEKHA HAI AESA HOTY HOWE APNI ANKHON SE… SHE IS LOOSE CHARACTER… SHE IS A SLUT… KONSI LRKI CHAHE GI K WO GAIR MARD KI MOHABBAT KI TALABGAAR HO??? WO MOHABBAT BHEEKH MAIN MANGE?? YE AIK AESA MOZO HAI AIK AESI BAAT JISKO NA HI KOI SUN NA CHAHE GA NA HI KOI PARHNA CHAHE GA… PR PHIR BHI MAIN ISS MOZO KI AWAAZ BN NE KI AIK CHOTHI SI KOSHISH KRNA CHAHTIN HUN SHAYAD ISS PR BAAT KRNE SE WO LRKIYAAN JO DOOB RAHEN HAIN WO BACH JAYEN…SHAYAD… BAZAHIR ACHI PRIVATE UNIVERSITIES MAIN PARHNE WALI LRKIYAAN AESE MSLON MAIN DOCHAAR NAZAR ATEN HAIN… UN K LIBAAS… MAKE UP… ORR KHRCHE YE ZAHIR KRTEN HAIN K UNKI GHARELO ZINDGI ACHI HOGI… PR HAKEEKAT KIYA HAI KOI NAI JANTA… AWARA HONE KA THAPPA UN PR BILAWAJ...

The Word is mightier than the Sword

Languages are a way to communicate with the others, sometimes media isn’t just language it’s gesture, body language, actions and silence as well is the way to communicate. One hates the rival more than he/she might love someone, it’s human psychology that the devil residing inside us prevails over the good or saint version of us and we just wrap everything around us just cause of a flux of adrenaline pumping through the body due to an act that we hate not loved, avoid not the one we dreamed off. A weapon would just cut off the heads and, guess what, not a single moment the rival felt about the pain one might want to. A sword an intense way to communicate when one thinks his/her words are not working but actually the history has all the lessons in it which can be concluded in either of the ways one about the glory of the brutality, No of heads that were slaughtered or the impact of the use of force. The use of the force impacts momentary, devastating although, but is it everlast...

The Mood Conjecture

How often do you hear the words “moody” or “mood swings”? As simply and frequently as these terms are used, it clearly doesn’t do justice to the amount of complexity they hold but does cover up the actual nature of the modern society. “Emotions, moods, impulses, ebb and flow with the tide of my life. Tidal waves, at times, in a bipolar mind.” ―  H.G. Wells I doubt that anyone reading this can say with absolute certainty that they don’t let their moods govern what they do or say. You might have a great deal of control over yourself but you can never truly escape the way you feel on the inside. At some point it is bound to come out, especially if the ones around you are perceptive. I acknowledge the graveness of this entity and although most of the time I am able to control my reactions, but being only human I can never deny that in the end our moods control us, they govern how we see the world. Take for example a person who is happy, in the illusion of their happiness they w...

Am I Really Worthless? (Silent Cry of Poor Souls)

All my life I tried. Tried to make you happy. To meet up to your expectations.. Tried to be the perfect child. But, All you did was compare Compared me to the kid next door.. Compared me to the kid with better grades.. Compared me to the kid with a better job.. Compared me to whatever you thought was perfect. Little did you realize that all you were doing was belittling me. Shattering my confidence and self worth. Then one day you go on and call me worthless. This world hit me like a sword in the heart. It permanently stamped my brain and stood like a flashing neon sign in the way of every goal. Every time I wanted to or tried to do something, your worlds rung true. Now I fear taking any step due to the mere consequences of your reaction. To the parents out there who call their kids worthless, fat, ugly and a whole load of other things.. My question is "What or who gave you the right to judge?"   Just because you brought a person into the world, did it automatically giv...

Being Human

Have we ever thought to be human enough? If we did what criteria did we set of ourselves being a human? Whenever I sit alone my mind leaps out of the present and thinks of what to come but mostly it revolves around me. What am I going to do myself, what will I get if do this and that? But sometimes yet very rare during these selfish moments my thoughts leap out of being me for myself and gets into me for others. During such a time I judged myself being a human. I thought of me yet I have this very feeling that most of us less or more fall within the same category Literature defines Humanity as the quality of being humane; kindness; benevolence. Some of us say if others are safe from our evil that is what makes us human. Others think that having mind which evaluates the past and plans about future, the soul which defines us being human and having knowledge which defines us for being human.  What matters is whether to look human is more important or to feel human. Having knowl...