“Can you imagine
how best friends can fall in love with each other? Silently sharing their
emotions and lifelines. They love it when you catch them looking at you in
gatherings. You are their better half in this one universe having 9 planets,
809 islands, 7 seas having a privilege of meeting them because every day they
tell you that you are amazing the way you are.”
The human
condition is full of terror. We are always on the verge of disgrace, confusion,
danger, disappointments and what not? In such situation we badly need friends
because they give us access to an insight with which we can begin to judge our
sad and broken side more compassionately.
There is no
formal way to define a friend. Criteria for the friendship varies from person
to person. In my opinion, the broadness of the term “friendship” is far beyond
befriending only humans. One can find a friend in lifeless things, feelings and
fellow creatures too. Here is the little try to explain what really a friend
is.
A true friend is
the one who is your friend for your sake, not to get any kind of benefit from
you, the one who never gives up on you when you start making mistakes, remains
in touch even if you establish a distance with them, continuously feels pain
for you, who supports you at every moment for the good. To conclude, being
truthful, genuine and real is what friendship demands.
There exist
different phases of life. In school days you are a friend with someone for no
reason. What that means you are not friend with them because it makes you more
popular in the school, or they are really smart at the school, or to use their
help for homework_not for any of those reasons. In university, you are not
friend with someone for an agenda, or because others will think more highly of
you, or you want a sort of jack to get a job after graduation. You are friend
with them for who they really are, not the things they owe, not the status they
have. When your friendship have no strings attached its true and genuine
despite of all those things.
It’s just a piece
of cake to make friends for like to play a routine game with, or to go hang out
in the mall, or to watch movie with but one of the hardest things to have in
your life is a true friend. And one thing more, it’s not about just a friend
you should be looking for but that’s a kind of friend you by yourself have to
be too. If you keep expecting all the good stuff from your friend despite of
being a good friend, it will hurt the vision of friendship.
“You get
dehydrated when you cry a lot but if it’s your best friends, you are always
going to cry with hell of a laughter. You are dead when you are heartbroken but
if your best friends broke your heart, you are going to blow the hell out of
them. It’s simply amazing how one day someone walks into your life, the next
day you wonder how you lived these years without them.”
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Author: Aamir Zahid
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